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I'm wondering if anyone can help me out here? I will make this short and sweet so not to bore anyone here.
I live in Ottawa Ontario, my question is this: The mother of my young granddaughter has a file with C.A.S., she was removed along with the child from here home (which is owned by her mother) last April police came and C.A.S. were involved then. I kept the child (my granddaughter) for a month in that period in April. My son has never really had any continuing visitations with his daughter but I HAD since May 2008 then the mother and I had words and I hadn't seen the little one till last weekend.
Court was in August, he settled cause he would lose his Legal Aid since he was going to get a small raise at work. Last weekend he was refused again by the mother and grandmother (her mother)but the next day he called her mother and told her he was coming with the court order to pick up his daughter, we waited outside for abut 45 minutes in the rain but she finally brought her out. Even though it is "Police Enforced" they will only "stand by" and watch but nothing more. The mother is "in contempt" 2ce already for denying access. The grandmother informed me that she has applied for "kinship" through the C.A.S. and is waiting for her police check to be finalized.Can she do this? This was done on 1 August even before the mother of the child asked to make a settlement! Where does the father come in here? Doesn't he have to agree to this "kinship" The mother never worked for long, she's been supported by her mother. The father has a full time job and is capable to provide for his little one. Doesn't this have to go through the courts? If she hadn't had said anything, we would never know,right? And where would the recent court order and child support stand in this situation? If the child is with the grandmother then the court order between the parents is no good,right?
Father's lose again which is basically the norm in this place. Maybe someday things will get better for Dad's I hope.
Thank You
I'm wondering if anyone can help me out here? I will make this short and sweet so not to bore anyone here.
I live in Ottawa Ontario, my question is this: The mother of my young granddaughter has a file with C.A.S., she was removed along with the child from here home (which is owned by her mother) last April police came and C.A.S. were involved then. I kept the child (my granddaughter) for a month in that period in April. My son has never really had any continuing visitations with his daughter but I HAD since May 2008 then the mother and I had words and I hadn't seen the little one till last weekend.
Court was in August, he settled cause he would lose his Legal Aid since he was going to get a small raise at work. Last weekend he was refused again by the mother and grandmother (her mother)but the next day he called her mother and told her he was coming with the court order to pick up his daughter, we waited outside for abut 45 minutes in the rain but she finally brought her out. Even though it is "Police Enforced" they will only "stand by" and watch but nothing more. The mother is "in contempt" 2ce already for denying access. The grandmother informed me that she has applied for "kinship" through the C.A.S. and is waiting for her police check to be finalized.Can she do this? This was done on 1 August even before the mother of the child asked to make a settlement! Where does the father come in here? Doesn't he have to agree to this "kinship" The mother never worked for long, she's been supported by her mother. The father has a full time job and is capable to provide for his little one. Doesn't this have to go through the courts? If she hadn't had said anything, we would never know,right? And where would the recent court order and child support stand in this situation? If the child is with the grandmother then the court order between the parents is no good,right?
Father's lose again which is basically the norm in this place. Maybe someday things will get better for Dad's I hope.
Thank You
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