Hi there.
I think we will have to get a lawyer unfortunately but I’m wondering if anyone has experience with this.
We have shared joint custody.
Ex wife is very resentful and hostile and despite me giving in to so many of her demands, she still fights me on almost everything.
It’s affecting and hurting the kids but she doesn’t see it. I know I am powerless to stop her badmouthing me to the kids. I’ve begged her to go to divorce counselling with me. She refuses.
She’s recently refused to do pick up and drop offs that were agreed to.
We have a signed separation agreement but it’s not “specific” about schedules. We have not been to court (can’t afford it) so it’s not “court ordered”.
Ex now is demanding a copy of my work schedule (I’m a shift worker). I wouldn’t care except I used to give it to her and she started to use it to demand I take the kids on every single day I wasn’t working so she could go away and have days to herself without the kids.
She has said she won’t “approve” the custody schedule starting Monday unless I give her a copy of my work schedule. Can she demand this? I don’t want to be difficult but I know she’s going to use it to manipulate me etc. I feel beaten by this whole process already.
I think we will have to get a lawyer unfortunately but I’m wondering if anyone has experience with this.
We have shared joint custody.
Ex wife is very resentful and hostile and despite me giving in to so many of her demands, she still fights me on almost everything.
It’s affecting and hurting the kids but she doesn’t see it. I know I am powerless to stop her badmouthing me to the kids. I’ve begged her to go to divorce counselling with me. She refuses.
She’s recently refused to do pick up and drop offs that were agreed to.
We have a signed separation agreement but it’s not “specific” about schedules. We have not been to court (can’t afford it) so it’s not “court ordered”.
Ex now is demanding a copy of my work schedule (I’m a shift worker). I wouldn’t care except I used to give it to her and she started to use it to demand I take the kids on every single day I wasn’t working so she could go away and have days to herself without the kids.
She has said she won’t “approve” the custody schedule starting Monday unless I give her a copy of my work schedule. Can she demand this? I don’t want to be difficult but I know she’s going to use it to manipulate me etc. I feel beaten by this whole process already.
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