In a nutshell here is my case:
Have had joint custody order and physical joint custody for over 2 years.
Model parent, involved in S9's schooling, extracurricular, basically everything.
Have had a stable home with child since separation, ex has moved around 3 times.
Ex married her affair partner, had a child and is preg again.
S9 has gone to the same school for years now, doing great, has a large extended family here in Toronto.
Ex wants to move him to the US, where hubby is from and has a family business at. Has made many false allegations about my parenting/living environment, none of which are true.
Ex is seeking sole custody to reduce my time and then make the move.
Sooooooooooo, had first case conference, judge was clueless, clearly didn't read our briefs. Judge denied both parties request to have the OCL involved, simply because she said it would take too long for them to become involved.
I was hoping for the OCL to be involved and see that everything she has said is a lie and it is not in our sons best interests to uproot him from everything in his life.
How much will not having the OCL involved hurt me?
I have much proof to show that she is lying, but was hoping for expert testimony.
Thanks in advanced.
Have had joint custody order and physical joint custody for over 2 years.
Model parent, involved in S9's schooling, extracurricular, basically everything.
Have had a stable home with child since separation, ex has moved around 3 times.
Ex married her affair partner, had a child and is preg again.
S9 has gone to the same school for years now, doing great, has a large extended family here in Toronto.
Ex wants to move him to the US, where hubby is from and has a family business at. Has made many false allegations about my parenting/living environment, none of which are true.
Ex is seeking sole custody to reduce my time and then make the move.
Sooooooooooo, had first case conference, judge was clueless, clearly didn't read our briefs. Judge denied both parties request to have the OCL involved, simply because she said it would take too long for them to become involved.
I was hoping for the OCL to be involved and see that everything she has said is a lie and it is not in our sons best interests to uproot him from everything in his life.
How much will not having the OCL involved hurt me?
I have much proof to show that she is lying, but was hoping for expert testimony.
Thanks in advanced.
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