What Grandma is doing is very, very wrong, however I do think there are ways you can make it easier on your daughter, seeing as her Grandmother wants to make it more difficult.
Encourage your daughter to check her ipod, encourage her to message Grandma back, things like this will make it easier for your daughter. I understand you may feel it is not in the best interest of your daughter to talk to or see her Grandma much, but the reality is, she probable loves her Grandma and enjoys spending time with her. What she probably doesn't love is having to listen to Grandma put you down, so do everything in your power to make sure Grandma has nothing to put you down for. Grandma can't really tell her Dad is not letting me talk to you, when you are encouraging her to check her ipod etc.
Until this gets sorted out for good in court, you need to do what you can to make things easier on your daughter. Grandma has no interest on making things easy on you or your daughter so that is all up to you.
Encourage your daughter to check her ipod, encourage her to message Grandma back, things like this will make it easier for your daughter. I understand you may feel it is not in the best interest of your daughter to talk to or see her Grandma much, but the reality is, she probable loves her Grandma and enjoys spending time with her. What she probably doesn't love is having to listen to Grandma put you down, so do everything in your power to make sure Grandma has nothing to put you down for. Grandma can't really tell her Dad is not letting me talk to you, when you are encouraging her to check her ipod etc.
Until this gets sorted out for good in court, you need to do what you can to make things easier on your daughter. Grandma has no interest on making things easy on you or your daughter so that is all up to you.
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