Happy New Year Community.......
As some of you know, my D15 has now been living with me for just over a year and is very happy.
Yesterday, on Jan 3rd, S14 told STBX that he was staying with me. This was also the day that I returned S12 and D11 back to STBX after Xmas access.
As soon as S12 and D11 arrived back at STBX's... STBX and STBX's father (grandfather to children) where made to pay.
They were told they were no longer welcome, forced to pack up all of their belongings and returned to me later in the evening..
WTF. ????
Regardless...... I now have all 4 of my children.... and they never want to step foot in STBX's granfather's house again and want to live with me primarily.

I know that they have just moved in.... but I am now getting hammered on expenses as the source deduction order is still in place paying STBX AND I am having to support all 4 of my children, 4 bus passes... 4 winter coats, 5 mouths....
I need the SDO removed or modified asap.
I have a motion on Jan 20th on an unrelated matter, and the second half of my settlement conference on Jan 21st.
Could/Should I plead to the court for relief at this time???
Should I try and bring this forward on an urgent motion ? I don't thing me going broke is considered urgent by the courts..... although its stressing the hell out of me....
I don't believe contacting FRO will do anything. They will tell me to get an order.
PND
As some of you know, my D15 has now been living with me for just over a year and is very happy.
Yesterday, on Jan 3rd, S14 told STBX that he was staying with me. This was also the day that I returned S12 and D11 back to STBX after Xmas access.
As soon as S12 and D11 arrived back at STBX's... STBX and STBX's father (grandfather to children) where made to pay.
They were told they were no longer welcome, forced to pack up all of their belongings and returned to me later in the evening..
WTF. ????
Regardless...... I now have all 4 of my children.... and they never want to step foot in STBX's granfather's house again and want to live with me primarily.




I know that they have just moved in.... but I am now getting hammered on expenses as the source deduction order is still in place paying STBX AND I am having to support all 4 of my children, 4 bus passes... 4 winter coats, 5 mouths....
I need the SDO removed or modified asap.
I have a motion on Jan 20th on an unrelated matter, and the second half of my settlement conference on Jan 21st.
Could/Should I plead to the court for relief at this time???
Should I try and bring this forward on an urgent motion ? I don't thing me going broke is considered urgent by the courts..... although its stressing the hell out of me....
I don't believe contacting FRO will do anything. They will tell me to get an order.
PND
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