How do I prove that ex is alienating my son?

[serrona]

I am in a battle of my life with my ex. I know for a fact that this woman is intentionally alienating me from my son, yet she goes to court and to the mediators and says that she wants me to be with our son. Yet when she talks to me it's completely different. Right now it's a matter of he said she said. Problem is, my boy is suffering as a result. What can I do to show everyone involved i.e. court, lawyers, judge and mediator, that she is not acting my our sons best interest.

I have practically begged the court to pay attention to me when I tell them that my ex is not cooperating with me in my access to my son. How can I prove beyond any doubt that she is indeed manipulating and in turn, sabatoging my relationship with my son?

Thanks

[smadax]

Imo

I'm not a lawyers by any means, this is just my humble opinion.

To my understanding it's okay to record conversations between yourself and your ex-wife (but NOT okay to record your children(s) phone calls). Although this is seen as somewhat of a gray area I would certainly seek legal advise in your State/Province regarding this matter.

My lawyer said this was okay, but we're advised to tell the ex that we are recording and state the date/time at the beginning of the conversation - while the tape is rolling.

Our Court Registry also said the Judge detest having to listen to tapes, but it would be okay to transcribe them and have the tape available upon request.

[jlalex]

Serrona,

Parental Alienation Syndrome is somewhat difficult to prove. But probably the best thing you could do for your child is request a Childrens Lawyer, they work on behalf of the children only and look out for their best interests.

I'm sorry that you and your family are going through such difficult times, I can relate as we are going through the same thing ourselves. Unfortunately it seems a lot of the process is waiting..painful I know but it will eventually come to a conclusion and hopefully one that is best for your child.

Jlalex