Ex hostile towards me in front of child...

[dinkyface]

She's 6 so she is in school. Have him pick D6 up from school on Friday, and drop her off at school on Monday. No need for you to meet at all.

[HappyDays]

I don't think you could change it to supervised access, but you could certainly change the pickup drop off location to a public place with witnesses.

In the mean time, just bring a video camera with you or use your cell phone. That should change his demeanor during transfers pretty quickly.

[FB_]

We have no mutual friends and I do have someone that can come with or do the exchanges entirely for me but it won't be until mid-July, until then I am stuck with a decision to make. I don't want to hold her from her father but at the same time I don't want her subject to this abuse, it's really aggressive and scary. The police station is an idea...

Somewhere with lots of witnesses and a situation he would be less likely to do it. It is not a healthy situation but you should probably not withhold access as this would make things way worse and possibly look very bad on you should it end up in court.

[court]

We have no mutual friends and I do have someone that can come with or do the exchanges entirely for me but it won't be until mid-July, until then I am stuck with a decision to make. I don't want to hold her from her father but at the same time I don't want her subject to this abuse, it's really aggressive and scary. The police station is an idea...

[DowntroddenDad]

You could have him meet you at the police station (or coffee shop )but I'm not sure that would be best for your daughter either and I'm sure he would not agree.

He might be a little less willing to make an Ass of himself in those places

Is there someone who is still friends with both of you who could come with you? Or even just someone he doesn't hate? Having a witness might shame him or at least make him worried. If you had someone you really trusted to do the exchange for you, even better.

[FB_]

You could have him meet you at the police station (or coffee shop )but I'm not sure that would be best for your daughter either and I'm sure he would not agree.

He might be a little less willing to make an Ass of himself in those places

[court]

Hi everyone, it's been a while since I have been here

Now that I have FRO involved I really no longer need to discuss anything with my ex, however , since FRO is involved he has become (even more than before) extremely angry and resentful towards me. He is talking very negatively about me to our D6 and swears (C**N, W***RE and on and on) in front of her at our (very public) bi-weekly exchanges which makes her cry. After this last weekends episode I don't think it's in her best interest for me to continue doing the exchanges but don't currently have anyone who can help with these exchanges until mid-July. What do I do? I do have Sole custody and there is no access order stamped out, we have just agreed with every other weekend but where does the line get drawn, how much should a child be subject to? What avenues do I take right now? Shall I keep meeting him myself and continue having her witness this until July? What about the stuff he is saying to her? I am self-repping so don't know what steps I can arrange to get supervised visits or whatever is needed until she is at least a little older to stand up to him or of an age where she can legally decide not to go see him.

Thanks in advance,