Hi everyone,
I really hope someone can help me with this. In June of 2011 my friend was handed the most unfair and unjust ruling. He was self represented, she had hi paid lawyer. Long story short, he lost every thing. The judge ordered telephone access and supervised access ( not to any specific access center) to start based on that the boys had not seen or had spoken to their father for 2 1/2 years.
The Trial Judge, even though was provided with hard evidence from C.C.A.S and letters back and forth of motions being adjorned by her ( the mother) and any temporary orders that did not work for were being broken, still decided to punish the wrong parent.
That being said, the trend is continuing.
This father still has NOT seen his four boys, its been Three Years. He has done everything he was ordered to do, telephone access 3 times a week to start, every day after 8 weeks, he went to private and public reputable access center places but no one would take him because the Judge did not specify any place due to she was provided with a letter from C.C.A.S refusing to supervise any access for 2 reasons, One they did not believe that a judge has the Jurisdiction to order supervised access, mostly when there has been NO EVIDENCE of child abuse and Two, the did not believe that this father needed to be supervised.
He finally found some access place that agreed to do it, but, they informed him that they will make no recommondations for him to take in front of a Judge so that he can get more time and un-supervised access.
The mother was ordered to facilitate telephone access, encourage the boys with their father and do everything possible to get these boys re-united with their father. She has done nothing but the opposite. She with holds the children from talking on the phone, she makes sure that the kids are busy when he calls so that they won't speak to him, most of the times he calls or emails her that he would like to speak to the children, she ignores him or just gives him answers like "today doesn't work"
Worst, she has been notified for several weeks that the access place is waiting to talk to her so that they can start the visits yet, she has cancelled any appointment she made, and is directly breaking a final court order.
What can we do? IF there is proof, emails, documentation that she has defied the Judges orders, can we pull an emergency motion so that this poor guy can get another Judge to see the injustice and finally see his four boys aged 10, 10 (twins) 9 and 7, before Christmas?
I appreciate and am grateful for all and any information you can help me with.
athena16
I really hope someone can help me with this. In June of 2011 my friend was handed the most unfair and unjust ruling. He was self represented, she had hi paid lawyer. Long story short, he lost every thing. The judge ordered telephone access and supervised access ( not to any specific access center) to start based on that the boys had not seen or had spoken to their father for 2 1/2 years.
The Trial Judge, even though was provided with hard evidence from C.C.A.S and letters back and forth of motions being adjorned by her ( the mother) and any temporary orders that did not work for were being broken, still decided to punish the wrong parent.
That being said, the trend is continuing.
This father still has NOT seen his four boys, its been Three Years. He has done everything he was ordered to do, telephone access 3 times a week to start, every day after 8 weeks, he went to private and public reputable access center places but no one would take him because the Judge did not specify any place due to she was provided with a letter from C.C.A.S refusing to supervise any access for 2 reasons, One they did not believe that a judge has the Jurisdiction to order supervised access, mostly when there has been NO EVIDENCE of child abuse and Two, the did not believe that this father needed to be supervised.
He finally found some access place that agreed to do it, but, they informed him that they will make no recommondations for him to take in front of a Judge so that he can get more time and un-supervised access.
The mother was ordered to facilitate telephone access, encourage the boys with their father and do everything possible to get these boys re-united with their father. She has done nothing but the opposite. She with holds the children from talking on the phone, she makes sure that the kids are busy when he calls so that they won't speak to him, most of the times he calls or emails her that he would like to speak to the children, she ignores him or just gives him answers like "today doesn't work"
Worst, she has been notified for several weeks that the access place is waiting to talk to her so that they can start the visits yet, she has cancelled any appointment she made, and is directly breaking a final court order.
What can we do? IF there is proof, emails, documentation that she has defied the Judges orders, can we pull an emergency motion so that this poor guy can get another Judge to see the injustice and finally see his four boys aged 10, 10 (twins) 9 and 7, before Christmas?
I appreciate and am grateful for all and any information you can help me with.
athena16
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