4 years ago I went through a CL relationship (6 years long) that ended in a
disaster with the mother visiting family in Ontario with our new born child
only never to return to B.C where our home and jobs are.The move was made unilaterially and without my consent in the eyes of the court.
The matter took a few years and 7 trips to court in Ont to and she was allowed to remain there with our child and i was and am a travelling father.
I was ordered to pay CS and SS reduced because of the circumstances and very high access costs of 8 to 10k a year. The reduction at the time was 30%, now with some raises over time the reduction is 40%. The SS terminates next year.
The situation is gradually improving with both parents working together and no return to court which is better for all.
My question, she is asking for financial help with 1-bedding 2-small daycare costs 3-activities (sports) 4-school expenses(lunch) 5-money for presciptions that exceed my plan the child is on. 6-for me to pay the full table amount on CS.7-for me to continue to pay 50% of her intermet even though she now works(webcam access accross canada)
any opinions on what would be fair and appropriate?, thx the Raven
disaster with the mother visiting family in Ontario with our new born child
only never to return to B.C where our home and jobs are.The move was made unilaterially and without my consent in the eyes of the court.
The matter took a few years and 7 trips to court in Ont to and she was allowed to remain there with our child and i was and am a travelling father.
I was ordered to pay CS and SS reduced because of the circumstances and very high access costs of 8 to 10k a year. The reduction at the time was 30%, now with some raises over time the reduction is 40%. The SS terminates next year.
The situation is gradually improving with both parents working together and no return to court which is better for all.
My question, she is asking for financial help with 1-bedding 2-small daycare costs 3-activities (sports) 4-school expenses(lunch) 5-money for presciptions that exceed my plan the child is on. 6-for me to pay the full table amount on CS.7-for me to continue to pay 50% of her intermet even though she now works(webcam access accross canada)
any opinions on what would be fair and appropriate?, thx the Raven
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