I sent an email to my childrens dad with his thoughts on us moving to alberta where he resides (not the same town tho haha) and asked if he had any reservations or concerns as a dad, he wrote back that moving to alberta would be the best decision i have ever made. I got consent on paper! yaay now when i tell my lawyer in ontario that I plan on moving i don't think she will be happy how should I proceed if she wants me to stay? Do you think it would strictly be $$ motivated as both parents would reside much closer only increasing the opportunity for a better relationship any thoughts and advice as to what to do thank you all.
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Why would your lawyer care where you lived if you and your ex agree to it? It's a breath of fresh air to hear about two people who can work together and solve issues without spending hundreds of dollars on lawyers going back and forth.
The only thing may be to officially ammend a separation agreement so that it's current if key things change within it with the move...if you think that's important enough to do.
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we don't have a separation agreement. I just dropped off my financial info to my lawyer this morning to start the process! I figure she will tell me to hire a lawyer in alberta once i get there!
my stbx had just left abandoned everything here and moved in with his lady friend haha soo i am relieved that the kids will see and feel positive and accepted and happy now!!
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thank you it's not easy and i do get judged for moving closer to their dad. Don't get me wrong I have no wants or desires to be in a relationship with him ever again good lord no however i do want my kids to have a relationship with their dad. I do think he can be a great loving dad when he wants to be. so I think its up from here on..... well wait until spousal and support come into play! haha however that's all candy, when I know the kids are getting/feeling and being loved like they should be.
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I wonder if that is why the Lawyer wants the separation in place before you move. If you move 4 hours away (I believe you said previously) he could kick up a storm & say you should have moved within a reasonable distance but instead intentionally moved far enough to keep the access to a minimum ... I would ask her reasoning prior to making a decision
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