Hey everyone. I have asked a few questions on here over the last 6 months and have had some good answers, so I will try another one.
In summary, STBX said she wanted to seperate 6 months ago now. She makes about 93k a year, and I make about 18k due to medical limitations. She has hired one of the most expensive lawyers in town, and I cannot afford a lawyer, and apparantly, I am just over the threshold of legal aid.
We had a case conferance at the end of May that accomplished absolutely nothing! She even agrees with that. I have now submitted two offers to settle with her lawyer and have had no responces from either. The lawyer will not even reply to any of my emails. About a month ago, I came home after being away for a couple days, to find a moving truck in the driveway. She basically took everything except my bedroom stuff that I keep locked. I called the police, as too me, this was theft. They came and did the report. She then returned later without talking to the police yet. The police returned to the house to talk to her. I gathered from them, that there was nothing they could do as it is matrimonial property, but did advise her not to remove anything else from the residence. While the police were there, she brought up mediation and I agreed. I told her I would get all the info for her as they would base the costs on her salary so she should contact them. The next day, as I was at work, she returned and removed mostly everything else! I called the police again, but never heard what happened.
So now, about a month later, me still living in bedroom in a empty house with no appliances, am still waiting for her. I think the mediation line was BS to make herself look good in front of the police.
What I want to know, is there any way for me to force negotiations? No dates were set at the CC, so I am in complete limbo here, and am getting desperate. I have no finacial means to move out, but i am afraid that one of these days I am going to come home to a forclosed home, as the mortgage is in her name and i don't know what she is doing.
Any help would really be appreciated!
In summary, STBX said she wanted to seperate 6 months ago now. She makes about 93k a year, and I make about 18k due to medical limitations. She has hired one of the most expensive lawyers in town, and I cannot afford a lawyer, and apparantly, I am just over the threshold of legal aid.
We had a case conferance at the end of May that accomplished absolutely nothing! She even agrees with that. I have now submitted two offers to settle with her lawyer and have had no responces from either. The lawyer will not even reply to any of my emails. About a month ago, I came home after being away for a couple days, to find a moving truck in the driveway. She basically took everything except my bedroom stuff that I keep locked. I called the police, as too me, this was theft. They came and did the report. She then returned later without talking to the police yet. The police returned to the house to talk to her. I gathered from them, that there was nothing they could do as it is matrimonial property, but did advise her not to remove anything else from the residence. While the police were there, she brought up mediation and I agreed. I told her I would get all the info for her as they would base the costs on her salary so she should contact them. The next day, as I was at work, she returned and removed mostly everything else! I called the police again, but never heard what happened.
So now, about a month later, me still living in bedroom in a empty house with no appliances, am still waiting for her. I think the mediation line was BS to make herself look good in front of the police.
What I want to know, is there any way for me to force negotiations? No dates were set at the CC, so I am in complete limbo here, and am getting desperate. I have no finacial means to move out, but i am afraid that one of these days I am going to come home to a forclosed home, as the mortgage is in her name and i don't know what she is doing.
Any help would really be appreciated!
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