I have been separated without any kind of agreement for over 5 years and just want this done..
facts
spouse lives in matrimonial home with 3 children
i paid 2500 a month for 18 months because I believed it was going to happen anyway
since I have been paying 800 a month
she wanted t do things mutually but will never agree to anything.
I offered 1600 a month for 50K out of the house (over 170K equity)
Since the "separation date" my step father has been charged with sexual interference of a miner and I am no longer allowed to see my children unless my ex or her sister is with us, Non of this is court ordered just what my ex demands...
Do I have to pay her anything without an agreement? will the court backdate support if there is no agreement? I need to force a hand here,, Anyone?
I am at the point where I want to tell a lawyer he can have my share in the house if he can get this settled so I can see my kids and a divorce
Thanks
facts
spouse lives in matrimonial home with 3 children
i paid 2500 a month for 18 months because I believed it was going to happen anyway
since I have been paying 800 a month
she wanted t do things mutually but will never agree to anything.
I offered 1600 a month for 50K out of the house (over 170K equity)
Since the "separation date" my step father has been charged with sexual interference of a miner and I am no longer allowed to see my children unless my ex or her sister is with us, Non of this is court ordered just what my ex demands...
Do I have to pay her anything without an agreement? will the court backdate support if there is no agreement? I need to force a hand here,, Anyone?
I am at the point where I want to tell a lawyer he can have my share in the house if he can get this settled so I can see my kids and a divorce
Thanks
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