Hi all. I just stumbled onto this forum. There is a lot of good advice...
Let me tell you of my story, If there is any one out there that can give me advice, it would be a welcome site.
Here goes: Been married for 7.5 years, found out spouse cheated on me in Nov 2005. Moved out, Christmas came and we decide to try, ( Well I did, read as much as I possibly could on the subject of getting back together). A few days later she was back to her old routine. So I moved out again. I Would go to the house when she went to work to watch after the kiddies. (have three, two are from me and the oldest is from her previous). So here I am. At this piont on fathers day I found out she is pregnent with the man she cheated on me with. 1. can i get a divorce pronto? or do I have to wait? 2. She is moving out, to a appt with the children. It seems that I will be paying 792 a month in child support. Can this be possibly fair? She cheats, get pregnent, and I have to pay? 3. I'm in the CF, and now am forced to live in the shacks.. in a ten by ten room, and also have to pay the full bills from the debt we ammassed.. 4. Can debt be divieded and reduced from child support?
Please help
Jayson
Let me tell you of my story, If there is any one out there that can give me advice, it would be a welcome site.
Here goes: Been married for 7.5 years, found out spouse cheated on me in Nov 2005. Moved out, Christmas came and we decide to try, ( Well I did, read as much as I possibly could on the subject of getting back together). A few days later she was back to her old routine. So I moved out again. I Would go to the house when she went to work to watch after the kiddies. (have three, two are from me and the oldest is from her previous). So here I am. At this piont on fathers day I found out she is pregnent with the man she cheated on me with. 1. can i get a divorce pronto? or do I have to wait? 2. She is moving out, to a appt with the children. It seems that I will be paying 792 a month in child support. Can this be possibly fair? She cheats, get pregnent, and I have to pay? 3. I'm in the CF, and now am forced to live in the shacks.. in a ten by ten room, and also have to pay the full bills from the debt we ammassed.. 4. Can debt be divieded and reduced from child support?
Please help
Jayson
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