my wife (now ex) has got a prohibition order from me accessing the kids. I have done nothing but just left them because she's always used the kids to trying to control over me. I couldn't stop her keep using the kids doing that. So I simply left and left everything to her and kids. I have been paying the house and phone, internet, utilities etc.. But she hired a lawyer and filed a very aggressive application to require to keep everything exclusively and pay a lump sum support (50k) also prohibiting me to access the children and contact her in anyways. I didn't attend the case conference because I was living outside of Canada that I had a work to do. However, the judge simply ordered whatever she applied and never read my response. Now the divorce has been issued by the order along with all the requests she asked have been ordered. It's just because of my fault not attending the case conference. The worse is once she got the order she stopped doing anything but leaving me still paying her bills.
Now I'm back to Canada. I'd like to file a motion change. Did my ignorance for the case conference affect the motion of change? what best progress should I take? I don't want to go for a lawyer anymore because I couldn't afford it.
The children badly want to see me but since she got the order I just can't take a step.
I could have paid her the one time support lump sum but it's been almost a year that I've been paying her bills. plus the order prohibiting me seeing kids.
I knew I had made big mistakes from beginning. Any advice? Do you see if it's possible to get a turn over?
many thanks.
Now I'm back to Canada. I'd like to file a motion change. Did my ignorance for the case conference affect the motion of change? what best progress should I take? I don't want to go for a lawyer anymore because I couldn't afford it.
The children badly want to see me but since she got the order I just can't take a step.
I could have paid her the one time support lump sum but it's been almost a year that I've been paying her bills. plus the order prohibiting me seeing kids.
I knew I had made big mistakes from beginning. Any advice? Do you see if it's possible to get a turn over?
many thanks.
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