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  1. Ange71727
    01-11-2017 10:14 PM
    Thanks for the encouragement! I feel like I am all alone posting out there. Wasn't expecting that at all but I guess there are a lot of people who went through a lot and feel passionately. I don't fault them - I just wish they weren't so quick to assume things. Anyway, there's no convincing LF32 that's for sure! I will keep doing what I need too. In a way it is fine that my ex keeps sending the false emails and lies about me, because hopefully I can use that later to show his true colours. It all really sucks though. Was hoping for a bit more support here but looks like I will at least be able to get lots of info and know what kinds of questions I may be asked.
    Take care!!
  2. motherbear4
    01-11-2017 02:56 PM
    Keep doing what your are doing! Yup, I learned a hell of a lot reading this forum. I seriously cannot believe the way LF32 is reacting to you. Ya, he went through hell to get his daughter back, but not all moms are gate keepers, out for the money, etc, etc. I seriously hope he clues in that his situation is not yours. Onward and upward! Blah
  3. Ange71727
    01-08-2017 04:58 PM
    Hi there!
    Thanks for your message and encouragement. I have actually received several "behind the scenes" messages from people who saw the beating I was taking!
    I agree that it is terrifying to have things said/written about you that are not true. I do need to develop a thicker skin. Maybe being on this forum will help with that.
    I would love to chat more in the future - came looking for people to support my choices and give advice so might not always get unbiased views on the main forum.
  4. motherbear4
    01-06-2017 01:21 AM
    Hi Ange,

    In a way, my situation is similar to yours. Ex has never had sole custody, we signed an agreement giving him more time when he moved to my area, he purchased a home in Quebec instead and now wants everything to still be as the agreement states. I sent a counter offer 9 months ago, revoked it 4 months ago, and still have heard nothing. What is he now doing? Dragging my name through the dirt any way he can. Absolutely terrifying, untrue, and laughable. Anyway, one of my points is, you must grow a thick skin immediately. Learn how to focus on the law. This is extremely difficult to do. It sucks! And having to work your way through all the crap some members throw out is not helping. I agree with Arabian, who is usually a very level-headed poster who focuses on the law. Grow your thick skin, let his allegations mount (it's up to him to prove them) and let him sink himself. Well, that's my strategy, I hope it works!

    We can chat here if you would like to 🤗


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