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Conversation Between LovingFather32 and motherbear4
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  1. motherbear4
    06-12-2018 11:59 PM
    Hi LF32 🙂 I know you are in a hiatus but noticed you have popped up for a couple of comments. I was wondering if you might be able to help me via messaging. I simply cannot put anything on the public board. Dad and I have 9 yr old twins, I have 4 kids (hence my name), we live in different provinces. Just too much that may give me away. Anyhoo, we had a first appearance/cc last week. They asked for a private assessment; I really had no choice but to agree. Would a private assessment be even remotely like an OCL one? If so, would you have the time to walk me through the process? Or would you be able to direct me to a thread on here that has the process step-by-step?

    If you are doing your best to stay out of this addictive crazy site, please tell me. But if you're here more regularly, I would appreciate any help you can provide.

    Thanks! Hope you and all your girls are loving life and having fun 🙂

  2. motherbear4
    05-20-2017 12:28 AM
    If you are, keep doing what you are doing. I tip my hat to you. There are so many kiddies out there who need help these days. I'm sure your compassion goes a long way in helping them.

    If you are not "our" EA, read above again. It applies to you too.

    So, I hope I haven't broken any ODF rules! This is a very personal message but not intended to pry. But wow, freaky, eh?

    I hope we didn't start on the wrong foot!

  3. motherbear4
    05-20-2017 12:28 AM
    You are in Ottawa; I am in Ottawa. You are an EA and mentioned you are currently assisting a young boy who throws chairs and attacks classmates. Poor little guy 😞 My twin sons are in a class with a little boy who does the same. They all worked very hard at remaining friends but it didn't work. 😞 You have also mentioned that you do magic shows. The Ea in the boys' class also does magic and runs a magic club.

    Please know that this is not to pry. I think it's a wonderful coincidence and have been struggling whether or not to tell you my story. Well, I bit the bullet and am taking a chance. I do not expect confirmation if you are indeed "our"EA. I just think it's so freaky, in a good way! 😊

    OMG! Another one.
  4. motherbear4
    05-20-2017 12:26 AM
    Hi LF32 😊

    I have been wanting to say hello for a long time now. I figured that after our quiet exchange last weekend, now would be the perfect time.

    I was there in the background as you started your journey. I think others will agree that ODF can be addictive, and around that time I had to take a break 😉 I was overjoyed to discover your success upon my return! My heart​ broke reading your story; I just can't imagine.

    Reading your posts I have pieced together something I'd like to share with you.

    Just discovered my message is too long. On to message #2

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