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Conversation Between atlanticcanadian and rhondagirl
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  1. atlanticcanadian
    07-11-2012 04:31 PM
    atlanticcanadian
    You can tell you are in the maritimes. I think it is the only place we used the words "My lady" or "My lord". I thought it was weird. My ex is up to his game. Apparently he gave me less than a quarter of what he owes me. I guess that is to make himself look good. I saw one of my former inlaws. God I miss some of them so much.
  2. rhondagirl
    07-09-2012 09:28 PM
    rhondagirl
    I can't see your messages ...
  3. atlanticcanadian
    07-09-2012 09:05 PM
    atlanticcanadian
    I started tonight and I feel great. People in my building told me I look great and confident and they have no idea what is going on.
  4. rhondagirl
    07-09-2012 08:18 PM
    rhondagirl
    Hey .. one other thing .. Be "silent and deadly" (so to speak) ... Poker face - don't let 'em know what you're doing until you are ready ti do it (or right before, if you're bluffing -- but if he calls the bluff, be ready to carry through ... I usually have two-three plans of action) ... Game + reality ... Go get 'im. ... Take back
    control.
  5. rhondagirl
    07-09-2012 07:25 PM
    rhondagirl
    (sorry about the typos - I blame the little iPod .. It's tiny, but I love it.)
  6. rhondagirl
    07-09-2012 07:23 PM
    rhondagirl
    Hey Fran .. I'm Helen .. angora.sweater@hotmail.com ... I found my problems happened with emotional reactions .. Once I remived that and viewed it as "game", I rocked. (I had a hard first year. - was in the hospital - eep .. so I hope I qualify as "been there, almost died (really), came back, was bullied, cried a river, felt totally overwhelmed, and saud *F* ... and thussly kicked some extreme ARSE. They didn't know what hit them ... Don't let them pkay your emotions. Take it BACK.
  7. atlanticcanadian
    07-09-2012 06:12 PM
    atlanticcanadian
    My name is Fran by the way. My personal is franbuckler@hotmail.com
  8. atlanticcanadian
    07-09-2012 06:10 PM
    atlanticcanadian
    Hi. I noticed you were online. I tried to communicate with my former lawyer both by phone (when my ex and our son destroyed all of my furniture - I wanted charges laid). I tried to communicate by email when Maintenance Enforcement and the Courts told me to. Lawyer told me to stop emailing to keep my legal bill down. So I let him go. I have spoken to three lawyers that want $3,000 to work out a very basic spousal support Order that I think I can do myself. it would be so much easier if he and his new wife (he was remarried before we were divorced) would stop employing legal bullying, mental abuse, etc. Oh well, I will communicate with the Court directly. This is bullshit. I just want my spousal support back and MEPS is great and so PATIENT.
  9. rhondagirl
    07-09-2012 02:40 PM
    rhondagirl
    (3) ... I also meant to say .. Even though I'm sure our situations are totally different, if you want to run any scenarios, problems, etc., by me .. please do.
  10. rhondagirl
    07-09-2012 01:07 PM
    rhondagirl
    (Part 2 of 2) .... For now, don't panic, keep it real, trust your instinct, and don't worry about his family OR put too much faith in anyone else's opinion - because however well-meaning (or not), their thoughts are based on their personal experiences.. THIS is YOUR experience.. YOUR game moves. Hang on and think first before reacting - Take time to make a plan, and take time to consider other angles and how they might also play out. I.e., What do YOU want to happen? And what do YOU need to do to get there? ... You can do this.

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