Hi everyone:
I thought I would do a quick intro.
35 year old female. Was married for 16 years.
Seperated for almost two years
Still in the middle of doing this divorce.
Three kids (ages 16, 15, 10)
I filed for divorce, because of verbal, sexual (that I can't really prove) abuse. Also the soon to be X was a real bad gambler. (Bad meaning he blew ALOT of money)
I really do not understand the legal system at all. I have a great lawyer, but it seems that we are the ones that always have to prove ourselves because the ex's lawyer is more established and semi retired.
The ex really hasn't had to answer to anything or any complaint.
(Sometimes I just wish that he had to explain where all his money is.... and what he has spent his money on...... instead of the other way around.)
It took me almost 8 months to get a child support order. The ex refused to give a dime to me or the kids after we moved out of the house. (In January of this year)
Yes,.... I moved out of the house for my safety and for the safety of the kids.
Spousal support has been ordered but FRO still has not received the order yet.... But at least somethings are looking up.
I'm here if anyone needs to talk.....
I thought I would do a quick intro.
35 year old female. Was married for 16 years.
Seperated for almost two years
Still in the middle of doing this divorce.
Three kids (ages 16, 15, 10)
I filed for divorce, because of verbal, sexual (that I can't really prove) abuse. Also the soon to be X was a real bad gambler. (Bad meaning he blew ALOT of money)
I really do not understand the legal system at all. I have a great lawyer, but it seems that we are the ones that always have to prove ourselves because the ex's lawyer is more established and semi retired.
The ex really hasn't had to answer to anything or any complaint.
(Sometimes I just wish that he had to explain where all his money is.... and what he has spent his money on...... instead of the other way around.)
It took me almost 8 months to get a child support order. The ex refused to give a dime to me or the kids after we moved out of the house. (In January of this year)
Yes,.... I moved out of the house for my safety and for the safety of the kids.
Spousal support has been ordered but FRO still has not received the order yet.... But at least somethings are looking up.
I'm here if anyone needs to talk.....
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