Hello again,
Ok I have a question regarding access when your child is ill. My x got upset at me yesterday because my daughter has had a low grade fever the last 3 days that comes and goes. Well she informed me that the fever was up and my daughter (2 yeards old) had diahrea too and wasn't eating much. Because the cold and flu has been going around I figured it was just that - but she was going to take her to a clinic. So I told her to inform me afterwards; she got upset at this because I didn't go. (she takes our daughter to the docs for everything) Anyway, it turns out that my daughter had tonselitis. I had to call back numerous times before she answered and then she wouldn't even tell me what was said - just said 'yup it's cold & flu if that's what you thought it was'. Then she called back again to say that because she was sick she shouldn't go out tonight and/or possibly for my weekend - and that's when she informed me of what was wrong and also told me that two kids at daycare had it previously (which I was never informed) and that's where she got it from.
My daughter's fever is low grade again but she still has tonselitis. My question is does she have the right to not let my daughter go with me because she's ill. Obviously if my daughter is really sick then I wouldn't want her to go outside etc but I think she's going to play it up to punish me again. She says our court order just says i have 'access' and doesn't say it's at my house so if I want to spend time it'll have to be at her place.
Also this weekend is suppose to be the weekend where I get my 2 overnights back (was just one temporarily and she tried to get the psychologist to agree that the 2nd one was a bad idea but he said to try it). So again she's going to play the sick card now. How far can this go - and how sick is sick - if my daughter has a little cold can she say she's too sick to spend time with me.
Ok I have a question regarding access when your child is ill. My x got upset at me yesterday because my daughter has had a low grade fever the last 3 days that comes and goes. Well she informed me that the fever was up and my daughter (2 yeards old) had diahrea too and wasn't eating much. Because the cold and flu has been going around I figured it was just that - but she was going to take her to a clinic. So I told her to inform me afterwards; she got upset at this because I didn't go. (she takes our daughter to the docs for everything) Anyway, it turns out that my daughter had tonselitis. I had to call back numerous times before she answered and then she wouldn't even tell me what was said - just said 'yup it's cold & flu if that's what you thought it was'. Then she called back again to say that because she was sick she shouldn't go out tonight and/or possibly for my weekend - and that's when she informed me of what was wrong and also told me that two kids at daycare had it previously (which I was never informed) and that's where she got it from.
My daughter's fever is low grade again but she still has tonselitis. My question is does she have the right to not let my daughter go with me because she's ill. Obviously if my daughter is really sick then I wouldn't want her to go outside etc but I think she's going to play it up to punish me again. She says our court order just says i have 'access' and doesn't say it's at my house so if I want to spend time it'll have to be at her place.
Also this weekend is suppose to be the weekend where I get my 2 overnights back (was just one temporarily and she tried to get the psychologist to agree that the 2nd one was a bad idea but he said to try it). So again she's going to play the sick card now. How far can this go - and how sick is sick - if my daughter has a little cold can she say she's too sick to spend time with me.
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