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Old 01-11-2006, 02:00 PM
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Howdy..haven't been here before!

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Been seperated over 6months..things just keep getting uglier. ex. is ill (meds for personality disorder)...he took all the money was charged for asault (beat the rap no witnesses except kids I wouldn't call them) now he's on a rampage..wants the kids the house..everything we've got..I'm gathereing documentation but this is getting SO UGLY..tried extending e-mail Olive branch this morning (there has been no comunication) but I think I'll just be shoving my arm (and the branch in a shredder) Pretty dark outside right now (Southwestern Ontario) pretty dark inside me to.
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Old 01-11-2006, 02:42 PM
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Sorry to hear about the 'dark' times you are experiencing. Rest assured we can relate to what it is your going through to some degree.

I sense a man filled with anger and abusiveness ...

I sense compassion from you ... that is not of the darkeness but of light. The darkness is not in you but it is only darkness being sensed/felt by you as a result of the circumstances you are experiencing.

Drop by often to the forums, great people, with genuine hearts of gold filled with love ... draw from them for support. There be no darkness here, only light. Bask in it and rest.

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Hi howdigethere and welcome.

I think you'll find you've come to a very helpful and supportive place. Feel free to ask questions or join in any of the ongoing discussions.
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Old 01-11-2006, 05:40 PM
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welcome to the forum. I 'accidently' discovered this forum approx. 2 months ago. I never realized such a forum existed; basically any question you have is answered and /or resources are given to lead you in the appropriate direction.
I think it was a GODsend that I found this site! I'm gald 'accidents' sometimes happen(ha)
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Howdlgethere,

I feel for you, I too am in an acrimonious divorce for 3 years now. It took me 2 years to "get over" it. I also felt the darkness. You can and will move on and have a new life to look forward too. I just takes time.

It is difficult to litigate when controlling spouses are involved. They can use the court system to bully you.

Keep venting here, it's very therapeutic.
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Old 01-12-2006, 10:58 AM
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Psalm 23 - "Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil"

Seperation/divorce or darktimes are just like the above statement ... you are walking throught this dark part of your life, it does not say, you will stay there forever. The best part is tells you HOW to deal with it ... action (walking) and having no fear (or proper attitude).

When it comes to my seperation, I'm rather glad it happened. It has awakened me and drawn me closer to HIM. I dont know about you but I want to ARRIVE ALIVE ... in heaven.

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Psalm 23 - "Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil"


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Wow hubby,

That is a very good quote from the bible. I should start reading it again to gain more hope and help...

Anyways, welcome!

People like Hubby on this forum can be very helpful and kind so please feel free to share your experiences with us!

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