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Old 01-27-2018, 12:34 PM
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"Originally Posted by XNarcSupplier View Post


... she is diagnosed narcissistic, bipolar and antisocial."

That's what ALL ex say about their ex. Judges hear is all. For 10 years of marriage it was all good, but right after separation the wife is crazy, narcissistic, bipolar etc... same old story, same
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Old 01-27-2018, 01:40 PM
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"Originally Posted by XNarcSupplier View Post


... she is diagnosed narcissistic, bipolar and antisocial."

That's what ALL ex say about their ex. Judges hear is all. For 10 years of marriage it was all good, but right after separation the wife is crazy, narcissistic, bipolar etc... same old story, same
100% Correct!

http://the-toast.net/2013/12/04/your...lity-disorder/

From the article in support of your wise observation:

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In the shadowy corners of the internet lives a subset of breakup listicles designed to help you diagnose your ex-partners’ psychopathology. Oh, you didn’t know this was a thing? It totally is a thing. According to several recent pieces on sites like the Huffington Post and Thought Catalog, almost everyone who ever dumped you had a personality disorder. These articles will walk you through the process of deciding just how “crazy” your ex was. Borderline Personality Disorder is used to label someone who seems too emotional, OCPD is assigned to those who can’t compromise, and Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Antisocial Personality Disorder explain the behavior of someone who doesn’t care about you anymore. “I dated someone just like this!” flood the comment sections of these articles as readers recount their ex’s symptoms.
XNarcSupplier is clearly influenced by confirmation bias in this whole matter. Which is quite common here on the forum.

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Confirmation bias, also called confirmatory bias or myside bias,[Note 1] is the tendency to search for, interpret, favor, and recall information in a way that confirms one's preexisting beliefs or hypotheses.[1] It is a type of cognitive bias and a systematic error of inductive reasoning. People display this bias when they gather or remember information selectively, or when they interpret it in a biased way. The effect is stronger for emotionally charged issues and for deeply entrenched beliefs.

People also tend to interpret ambiguous evidence as supporting their existing position. Biased search, interpretation and memory have been invoked to explain attitude polarization (when a disagreement becomes more extreme even though the different parties are exposed to the same evidence), belief perseverance (when beliefs persist after the evidence for them is shown to be false), the irrational primacy effect (a greater reliance on information encountered early in a series) and illusory correlation (when people falsely perceive an association between two events or situations).
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias

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