I sure am glad to have seen the discussion on wedding jewelry; i am still in the initial stages of separation and never even thought about the rings...i guess especially coz i have not worn them for months...I think melting them to form a new personal memento is not a bad idea...will explore later...LOL.
What about the FAMILY NAME OR SURNAME...i took his after we got married...and i have been known as such since 12 years ago, including as i moved thru my career...so from a professional perspective, it is preferable for me to keep the status quo. Also, both our kids use this same surname...so status quo for me means less confusion in school, after-school, etc.
But...what is preferable for me might not be appropriate. Haven't discussed with him yet as trying to focus on major things.
Any thoughts or inputs on this?
Please and thanks,
2bfree2012
What about the FAMILY NAME OR SURNAME...i took his after we got married...and i have been known as such since 12 years ago, including as i moved thru my career...so from a professional perspective, it is preferable for me to keep the status quo. Also, both our kids use this same surname...so status quo for me means less confusion in school, after-school, etc.
But...what is preferable for me might not be appropriate. Haven't discussed with him yet as trying to focus on major things.
Any thoughts or inputs on this?
Please and thanks,
2bfree2012
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