Until you have a signed agreement. DO NOT MOVE OUT!!
Don't even talk about renting your own place till you have this in place.
All communication via e-mail only!!! Keep a recorder on you at all times.
Set yourexpectations on the house with deadlines...you have till this date to provide documentation on pre-approval.
Now is the time to do this right, your future and your children's future depend on it.
So you have to live in the same house as her for a few months...she can't deal with it then she should get her a$$ moving on the house and the agreement.
If she is serious about it, she can back it up with actions....verbal promises are worthless.
What is going to change in 3 months, that will make a diffrence in taking over the house? NOTHING.
Who is paying for the bills now? Are you both still living in the house?
Don't even talk about renting your own place till you have this in place.
All communication via e-mail only!!! Keep a recorder on you at all times.
Set yourexpectations on the house with deadlines...you have till this date to provide documentation on pre-approval.
Now is the time to do this right, your future and your children's future depend on it.
So you have to live in the same house as her for a few months...she can't deal with it then she should get her a$$ moving on the house and the agreement.
If she is serious about it, she can back it up with actions....verbal promises are worthless.
What is going to change in 3 months, that will make a diffrence in taking over the house? NOTHING.
Who is paying for the bills now? Are you both still living in the house?
Comment