I am going to have to put this into the petty area. Fine I am out of the house and set up for now in a pretty good place all concidering - starting to eat and well do things that I shall describe as more than sit therein a trance........ Up to now to avoid the super stress (This is my stress that I care about - not hers.....and the kids have seen enough)The kids offered and have grabbed what i have asked as this has evolved and brought them to me so I do not have to go to the house - there is no police and the threat I had at the court house by the police officer was quote," No showing up with the U-Haul! You get 5 minutes!" "I said haow about 10?" He looked sternly and said, I am not here to get your stuff out of her house and (I will swear he said her house) and I do not plan.....
This email is about what defines personal items, that since I am no longer allowed near the home - what can i take out to live for the next two years???? (The first paper from the court makes reference to "Personal Items" no more - I know clothes, underwear and socks can leave but things that belong to me??) Well I can barely get down into the basement at times in five minutes let alon e try and find things that even on a list......I won't be able to find because well I admit to I "suffer from" I am one of those peole who tuck things in the strangest places and to remeber all at once???? I do not want to do the police thing..... Yesterday I get a message from my daughter that she can't find a lot of the last of what has grown into a list (each item has a location and where to find it) that I can live with (MY son Ryan was/is to help cuz he already moved things and the papers out of site - to keep my stuff away from mom - he had no problem(we slept in the same "room/area in the basement.....
To the point her email has "mom has been auditing my messages to them, she has defined what personal items are and the fact that I own half the stuff in there period and what i asked was within reason but I own a small dvd player that i use every night to help get my mind off hurt and into a state where I can sleep for a bit.......I own dvd's which i asked for a few - These she says are not personal items and she will not allow the kids to remove.........I won't even go to my computer, printer and scanner that this week to avoid war I just took money I do not have and found a used printer, the fellow delivered,set it up and then configured the laptop to print! My Lawyer said that this was a mistake iin that thses items had been termed Dad's things,(and as such are personal by rights?) I have the invoices in my posession and to top it off by the bank records the money came from the deposit of my mom's inheritence money - but to a lady who does not reason......Is there help as to define what is personal and I am allowed to remove so I can live today, enjoy a little bit of life today??? This year and maybe the next????
This email is about what defines personal items, that since I am no longer allowed near the home - what can i take out to live for the next two years???? (The first paper from the court makes reference to "Personal Items" no more - I know clothes, underwear and socks can leave but things that belong to me??) Well I can barely get down into the basement at times in five minutes let alon e try and find things that even on a list......I won't be able to find because well I admit to I "suffer from" I am one of those peole who tuck things in the strangest places and to remeber all at once???? I do not want to do the police thing..... Yesterday I get a message from my daughter that she can't find a lot of the last of what has grown into a list (each item has a location and where to find it) that I can live with (MY son Ryan was/is to help cuz he already moved things and the papers out of site - to keep my stuff away from mom - he had no problem(we slept in the same "room/area in the basement.....
To the point her email has "mom has been auditing my messages to them, she has defined what personal items are and the fact that I own half the stuff in there period and what i asked was within reason but I own a small dvd player that i use every night to help get my mind off hurt and into a state where I can sleep for a bit.......I own dvd's which i asked for a few - These she says are not personal items and she will not allow the kids to remove.........I won't even go to my computer, printer and scanner that this week to avoid war I just took money I do not have and found a used printer, the fellow delivered,set it up and then configured the laptop to print! My Lawyer said that this was a mistake iin that thses items had been termed Dad's things,(and as such are personal by rights?) I have the invoices in my posession and to top it off by the bank records the money came from the deposit of my mom's inheritence money - but to a lady who does not reason......Is there help as to define what is personal and I am allowed to remove so I can live today, enjoy a little bit of life today??? This year and maybe the next????
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