[QUOTE=dad2bandm;139138]The original post is hard to follow, because as one put it already, it's a "wall of text".
I don't think the "father has been in and out of her life for the past 4 years" statement is very fair, since that seems to be a direct result of the child being removed from the child's original province, by Mom (the original poster).
You are actually very wrong. We only moved 5 months ago. Before that we lived 20min apart (and he was the one who moved 20min away) and he still never made an effort to see or talk to her. We lived there for 4 years and he probably saw her a dozen times after the first year. And that isn't me. I only said no when he was being unsafe (suicidal/she was afraid of him/assaulted me etc) and only until he could show he had gotten himself under control and was safe (and he was always welcome to come and see her in that time). But most of the time he would just disappear then call 3 months later to say he had lost his phone or some junk like that. I know people think moms are out to screw exes but I am not. I am just protecting my daughter.
I don't think the "father has been in and out of her life for the past 4 years" statement is very fair, since that seems to be a direct result of the child being removed from the child's original province, by Mom (the original poster).
You are actually very wrong. We only moved 5 months ago. Before that we lived 20min apart (and he was the one who moved 20min away) and he still never made an effort to see or talk to her. We lived there for 4 years and he probably saw her a dozen times after the first year. And that isn't me. I only said no when he was being unsafe (suicidal/she was afraid of him/assaulted me etc) and only until he could show he had gotten himself under control and was safe (and he was always welcome to come and see her in that time). But most of the time he would just disappear then call 3 months later to say he had lost his phone or some junk like that. I know people think moms are out to screw exes but I am not. I am just protecting my daughter.
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