It's pretty crazy that over 3 months after I move out of the matrimonial home, he calls me because he misplaced something and accuses me of theft.
What's next, he's going to call me because he can't find the cheese grater?
What's next, he's going to call me because he can't find the cheese grater?
It will eventually dissipate and will happen faster the more you disengage. It takes time for the new habits to form to replace the habits you both already have.
Nothing about your case or circumstances are that unique actually.
That's why a lot of advice you're being given is based on the experience of people who've already been through this.
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