Trying to keep this as short as possible. Married 20 yrs to the man I adored. Two beautiful children, now 19 and 12. X goes through "mid life" or thinks "grass is greener on other side" . Wants things done quick and fair.. so he can move on with life and travel, he feels he lost out on when he married and had family. This was 20 months ago! Hehas continued on...travelling and so forth... while stalling at every lawyer letter to move forward.
I had a well paying job when we met and when we had children,both agreed one would stay home. That was me, as he was self employed and earned more. Through our marriage we ran and owned 2 businesses. I was responsible for at least 80% of our home business (farm) He ran other business, while I did payroll and books for both businesses.
I have spent a fortune in borrowed money from family on lawyer fees. X refused any attempt to finalize financials, assets and CS. To this day I have recieved not one penny in support for our 12yr old. Both children reside with me. I had to leave matrimonial home as I had no money for food or heat as he cut me off of bussiness bank accounts. Matrimonial home was a working farm. My lawyer sought court action as final draw on repeated refusal to move forward. Matrimonial home remains vacant. X has let other people use land and live in apartment on farm without my consent. Continues to earn and support new girlfriend that he resides with in her home with her 2 younger children. Has little to no contact with 12yr old, no contact with 19 yr old (was 17 when we separated)
This just boogles my mind to think he could just walk and abandon my children and myself without a second thought, or with no concequences.
I am forced to wait until January court case to even start to move forward. Is there any justice in my future? Or will everything continue as it is with him living the high life while I struggle to keep my children fed and under a warm roof??
I had a well paying job when we met and when we had children,both agreed one would stay home. That was me, as he was self employed and earned more. Through our marriage we ran and owned 2 businesses. I was responsible for at least 80% of our home business (farm) He ran other business, while I did payroll and books for both businesses.
I have spent a fortune in borrowed money from family on lawyer fees. X refused any attempt to finalize financials, assets and CS. To this day I have recieved not one penny in support for our 12yr old. Both children reside with me. I had to leave matrimonial home as I had no money for food or heat as he cut me off of bussiness bank accounts. Matrimonial home was a working farm. My lawyer sought court action as final draw on repeated refusal to move forward. Matrimonial home remains vacant. X has let other people use land and live in apartment on farm without my consent. Continues to earn and support new girlfriend that he resides with in her home with her 2 younger children. Has little to no contact with 12yr old, no contact with 19 yr old (was 17 when we separated)
This just boogles my mind to think he could just walk and abandon my children and myself without a second thought, or with no concequences.
I am forced to wait until January court case to even start to move forward. Is there any justice in my future? Or will everything continue as it is with him living the high life while I struggle to keep my children fed and under a warm roof??
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