I have a question just for my own curiosity. My partners ex tends to make demands for answers to her requests immediately or things tend to "disappear" and she needs him to send things again yet when he asks for a response within a reasonable amount of time (example a month after a request) he gets the "I work full time and am a full time single mother" bs.
Now shes lost an email he sent out of courtesy. Claims it disappeared. She never loses emails and normally ignores him following his emails (hes still waiting on an answer to holidays sent over a month ago). Asking him to resend it. He will of course, but my question is how much hand holding do you do with your exes? Do you jump when they ask even though it takes weeks for them? Do you coddle their mistakes about things like lost cheques that were handed to them? I just find it remarkable that she can ignore his reasonable requests but if he even thinks about waiting 24 hours to respond to her shes hunting him down.
Now shes lost an email he sent out of courtesy. Claims it disappeared. She never loses emails and normally ignores him following his emails (hes still waiting on an answer to holidays sent over a month ago). Asking him to resend it. He will of course, but my question is how much hand holding do you do with your exes? Do you jump when they ask even though it takes weeks for them? Do you coddle their mistakes about things like lost cheques that were handed to them? I just find it remarkable that she can ignore his reasonable requests but if he even thinks about waiting 24 hours to respond to her shes hunting him down.
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