Our kid did this to my ex when she was about 7 and he met his new girlfriend/now wife. Our "Princess" had had him and his house to herself for over a year or so, and any new entry wasn't going to be allowed by princess.. I know she made it pretty rough for them. I wonder if it is a girl/dad thing?
I didn't get involved, but when he and I would talk, I kept propping him up and telling him he was the adult - his house, and it shouldn't be run by a child. They broke up for a while, the girlfriend moved out, but eventually they got back together and are now married. Princess does not run their household.
Sorry you are in this situation, standing.
Maybe it's a time to reflect and decide what sort of relationship you are looking for - do you really want your next major relationship to be with someone who is depressed, and can't put you first in this situation? (and I don't mean to overstep by asking this).
I didn't get involved, but when he and I would talk, I kept propping him up and telling him he was the adult - his house, and it shouldn't be run by a child. They broke up for a while, the girlfriend moved out, but eventually they got back together and are now married. Princess does not run their household.
Sorry you are in this situation, standing.
Maybe it's a time to reflect and decide what sort of relationship you are looking for - do you really want your next major relationship to be with someone who is depressed, and can't put you first in this situation? (and I don't mean to overstep by asking this).
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