Reason I asked about nature of business is that there is plenty of diverse case law on family farm-based businesses - not all in favor of the farm wife. Judges don't like to separate the farmer from his land, especially if it's been in the family for a few generations.
I understand, and don't stand in judgement, on your reasons for marrying this fellow. You obviously had something that the other desired and that suited you both at the time when you got married. Not relevant anyhow. You didn't have children together.
There are many, many things that you will have to find out. Value of the business for a start. Hopefully he files his business taxes regularly through an accountant and there are records. He very well may have to sell the business to pay you out. Wouldn't be the first time someone had to do that.
Both people in a divorce will often lose their standard of living. Unless you are very wealthy that is the reality of divorce. It may take him a bit longer to wake up. Be prepared for a very long fight. Your husband will blame you for any misfortune he encountered in the past and in the future. His family and friends very well might believe him and shun you. At least you aren't deluded by thinking he was the love of your life and it sounds like you are ready to get on and do what has to be done to effectively end your relationship with him.
Living in a rural community would pose some definite challenges for finding a good lawyer. You need someone who is willing to email you and who will work quickly and efficiently. This is especially important at the start of your proceedings. Hit hard and hit fast. A good, efficient lawyer should be able to have him served by the end of the next week or two.
You will need a picture of your ex for your lawyer for service of documents. You will need to bring with you copies of all documents you can get your hands on. Your lawyer should give you a list when you sign the retainer agreement.
I understand, and don't stand in judgement, on your reasons for marrying this fellow. You obviously had something that the other desired and that suited you both at the time when you got married. Not relevant anyhow. You didn't have children together.
There are many, many things that you will have to find out. Value of the business for a start. Hopefully he files his business taxes regularly through an accountant and there are records. He very well may have to sell the business to pay you out. Wouldn't be the first time someone had to do that.
Both people in a divorce will often lose their standard of living. Unless you are very wealthy that is the reality of divorce. It may take him a bit longer to wake up. Be prepared for a very long fight. Your husband will blame you for any misfortune he encountered in the past and in the future. His family and friends very well might believe him and shun you. At least you aren't deluded by thinking he was the love of your life and it sounds like you are ready to get on and do what has to be done to effectively end your relationship with him.
Living in a rural community would pose some definite challenges for finding a good lawyer. You need someone who is willing to email you and who will work quickly and efficiently. This is especially important at the start of your proceedings. Hit hard and hit fast. A good, efficient lawyer should be able to have him served by the end of the next week or two.
You will need a picture of your ex for your lawyer for service of documents. You will need to bring with you copies of all documents you can get your hands on. Your lawyer should give you a list when you sign the retainer agreement.
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