Originally posted by got2bkid
Although you may not like my standpoint, I have not been rude to you at all... I'm simply offering my opinion, I'm asking questions because I accept that I could have some stuff to learn, and I'm open to the possibility that I'm wrong.
And yes, I DO live within my means. I also believe the CS support amounts in the Canadian guidelines are BARELY enough, especially if no extraordinary expenses are covered -- which is my case.
Originally posted by got2bkid
Originally posted by got2bkid
Originally posted by got2bkid
Please re-read my posts... I KNOW that mankind will always be making babies... my point was, firstly: you knew what you signed up for when you married a divorced man. Until his kids are finished university and had their wedding receptions paid for he is going to have financial commitments to those other children. If your husband couldn't afford more children than his first 2, *maybe* he shouldn't have had more. Lots of people only have 1 or 2 children. Maybe that could have been considered prior to making more children. However, now that babies #3 & 4 are here, perhaps if you don't like the amounts ordered, perhaps you could go back to court. I know there are judges out there who aren't so liberal because I got one... my judge did not allow extraordinary expenses, he also allowed my ex to not help with my kids university costs so my son right now has $30K in student debt.
Originally posted by got2bkid
Originally posted by got2bkid
I hear your point... or at least I'm trying to hear your point, I'm offering up some other thoughts for consideration. I would just appreciate a little respect that I can say my view of things too.
Originally posted by got2bkid
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