How things played out 1) court let him file on me with no response address, 2) 4 months later I get email about juridical case conference from a lawyer, 3) two weeks later a letter saying he had a lawyer along with response to counterclaim, 4) another 2 weeks later his financials with only 2 years attached. 5) the court withholds my second financials for a 3 weeks , days of phone calls i get them to tell me why "the l originals are missing' spend 5 minutes on the phone saying no they are there I finally here "oh my god I wish people would do their jobs" i am then told they will send them on since at this point my Jcc was in 2 days. All this time I am seeking legal advice and having everyone they can’t help me due to it being done in b.c. I call B.C told they can't help me I don't live there. It becomes so bad I call my MPP asking who a person is to turn to for legal advice and my local court house fighting me not wanting to sign my papers due to going out of province.
Jcc I am called 15 minutes late (maxed stressing not knowing whats going on) it starts right from the start the judge talks about not understanding Ontario laws and has no idea what this "so called order means" it is a past court order for child support to be payed when he found employment and how he was to pay according to the guidelines. “This is a provincial order he says them says the wrong date. (it is in fact a supreme order. He then says I don’t have any financials or X i have 2 for her. His lawyer says here is my copy Confusion right from the start I am told due to my x signing his papers he is telling the truth in re guards to what I put down as his income. I was not given a chance to explain why I put what i did. I am beyond frustrated and confused at this point. the judge starts talking about child support then says to his lawyer" you know more than me on this what do you think" the more the talking goes on the more the judge says I don't get it wait I'm confused. I am cut off when I try and give my side of thing. I talk about my child just applying for college ( I am cut off told by the judge "I don't know how that is dealt with" Once again cut off not able to talk beyond the point of confused understanding this was supposed to be a open meeting for both sides, I bring up about the past order and not getting any support over the years, his lawyer says he was surprised I am asking there has never been an issue, I go to remark I'm cut off.( i don't know Ontario laws is what the judge says ) At this point I'm beyond over confused i just want it to end nothing makes any sense how it possible the phone call end with 6 months of child support ?? I got off the phone in tears crying not understand how any of this happened
Am I able to do anything?? I was unable to make any calls the next day due to having surgery. Nothing makes any sense I am on Ontario works due to medical, since May I was trying everything and anything to get legal advice being turned away due to it being a divorce matter and out of province. So as i was asking is there anything that can be done. or just sign and go on with my life and hope to sleep again someday thanks
Jcc I am called 15 minutes late (maxed stressing not knowing whats going on) it starts right from the start the judge talks about not understanding Ontario laws and has no idea what this "so called order means" it is a past court order for child support to be payed when he found employment and how he was to pay according to the guidelines. “This is a provincial order he says them says the wrong date. (it is in fact a supreme order. He then says I don’t have any financials or X i have 2 for her. His lawyer says here is my copy Confusion right from the start I am told due to my x signing his papers he is telling the truth in re guards to what I put down as his income. I was not given a chance to explain why I put what i did. I am beyond frustrated and confused at this point. the judge starts talking about child support then says to his lawyer" you know more than me on this what do you think" the more the talking goes on the more the judge says I don't get it wait I'm confused. I am cut off when I try and give my side of thing. I talk about my child just applying for college ( I am cut off told by the judge "I don't know how that is dealt with" Once again cut off not able to talk beyond the point of confused understanding this was supposed to be a open meeting for both sides, I bring up about the past order and not getting any support over the years, his lawyer says he was surprised I am asking there has never been an issue, I go to remark I'm cut off.( i don't know Ontario laws is what the judge says ) At this point I'm beyond over confused i just want it to end nothing makes any sense how it possible the phone call end with 6 months of child support ?? I got off the phone in tears crying not understand how any of this happened
Am I able to do anything?? I was unable to make any calls the next day due to having surgery. Nothing makes any sense I am on Ontario works due to medical, since May I was trying everything and anything to get legal advice being turned away due to it being a divorce matter and out of province. So as i was asking is there anything that can be done. or just sign and go on with my life and hope to sleep again someday thanks
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