Hey everyone,
We have had equal 50/50 custody for 6 years. Our child is now 10 years old.
My ex just sent me a letter stating she wants the twice a week exchange changed to week-on and week-off. For 5 years, that's also what I wanted in the best interest of our child, but she refused. Without going into details, things have changed, and I now feel the current schedule is in our child's best interest. So, I'd rather the status-quo continue.
However, she is threatening that if I don't agree to the week on/off, she will go to court to get full/sole custody of our child during the school year, and I will only see him on holidays etc.
I don't think she will get anywhere with this. She is making false statements to try and justify her action, but can't back them up.
However, she can start a Motion, and I know she will.
I am 100% confident our child would rather spend significant more time with me. So, I am wondering if the best strategy is to wait for her to bring this to court. Then, if she does, I request the OCL represent our child.
Thoughts?
Thanks in advance!
We have had equal 50/50 custody for 6 years. Our child is now 10 years old.
My ex just sent me a letter stating she wants the twice a week exchange changed to week-on and week-off. For 5 years, that's also what I wanted in the best interest of our child, but she refused. Without going into details, things have changed, and I now feel the current schedule is in our child's best interest. So, I'd rather the status-quo continue.
However, she is threatening that if I don't agree to the week on/off, she will go to court to get full/sole custody of our child during the school year, and I will only see him on holidays etc.
I don't think she will get anywhere with this. She is making false statements to try and justify her action, but can't back them up.
However, she can start a Motion, and I know she will.
I am 100% confident our child would rather spend significant more time with me. So, I am wondering if the best strategy is to wait for her to bring this to court. Then, if she does, I request the OCL represent our child.
Thoughts?
Thanks in advance!
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