For everyone breathlessly watching this thread - got word from ex this morning saying he doesn't want D8 on Xmas Eve, so I can go ahead and do whatever I like.
The lessons I'm taking from this is one that I have to keep re-learning: if the ex is being difficult, often the best thing to do is to do nothing, as things may sort themselves out.
The lessons I'm taking from this is one that I have to keep re-learning: if the ex is being difficult, often the best thing to do is to do nothing, as things may sort themselves out.
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