Hello all. I am hoping to get some perspectives on this. My ex and I recently separated (4 months ago). We have one child who is 7. Since the time we split up he has not exactly been keen on spending time with his son. And apparently he began dating someone immediately after we ended our 10 year marriage, and I am told he spends a ton of his time with her. He is basically neglecting our child. Anyway, in this time we have not worked out a schedul for visitation. Every time I attempt to nail a schedule down he tells me we will do it later. Like he is avoiding it. I can't understand why.
Anyway, when I told him we can let a court decide since he can't seem to come to a decision on when he wants to see our son, it seemed to push him to make a decision.
He came back with he will see our son every Tuesday for 1 and 1/2 hours and have our son sleep over 2 Fridays per month.
Does this seem not quite right to you? Can you please tell me your schedule? This does not seem like enough time to me. I am worried my little boy will feel sad for not seeing his dad much. It upsets me because I know dads fighting to see their kids and are denied and here is my ex who doesn't seem to want to see his child.
What would a family court judge think of his idea of a schedule?
Any help would be appreciated.
Anyway, when I told him we can let a court decide since he can't seem to come to a decision on when he wants to see our son, it seemed to push him to make a decision.
He came back with he will see our son every Tuesday for 1 and 1/2 hours and have our son sleep over 2 Fridays per month.
Does this seem not quite right to you? Can you please tell me your schedule? This does not seem like enough time to me. I am worried my little boy will feel sad for not seeing his dad much. It upsets me because I know dads fighting to see their kids and are denied and here is my ex who doesn't seem to want to see his child.
What would a family court judge think of his idea of a schedule?
Any help would be appreciated.
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