Well, today was the day I decided that my x husband and I need mediation. As some of you have been reading me threads, you know a little about what is going on.
I am going for full physical care and control of my children. I have nottold my children what is going on,because I don't believe getting them involve until the situation is done. They do not need to be worried about anything.
Well today I picked up my kids for lunch from school and was talking to my son's teacher. His teacher invited him into the conversation on what they did in the morning and when he saw me the first thing that came out of his mouth was" Mom I know your secret, You are trying to take me away from Dad" My mouth dropped and as well as the teacher. My daughter was mad at me she did not want to talk to me, she called me liar. The reason why she called me a liar is because last week was my x's week and he told me at 8:30 in the morning he drop off child support and told me he was going out town and his mom was watching the children and asked if I could help his mom out by picking them up for lunch and after school I said no problem, but I am unavailable at night this week with meetings. He phone me an hour before my meeting and told me that his mom has things to do tonight could you take the kids, I said no, I told you this morning i have meetings all week.
Anyways, Kayla says to me you lied to me when you said we could not come over because you had meeetings and you did not have meetings, I said who told you that I did not have meetings, my daughter tells me that my x's friend which is female told my dad that she saw your car home every night. I could not believe what she told, I told her I did have meetings and they went past your bedtime so it was to late for you to come over to my house on a school night. I was ready to explode. My children do not need to be in the middle, he is hurting them by telling them this stuff. I went to today and asked about mediation and she offered it to me and asked if my x would join and all I could say is you can call and ask him. I believe mediation is what I need, so that I can ask him what he is doing to our children
I am going for full physical care and control of my children. I have nottold my children what is going on,because I don't believe getting them involve until the situation is done. They do not need to be worried about anything.
Well today I picked up my kids for lunch from school and was talking to my son's teacher. His teacher invited him into the conversation on what they did in the morning and when he saw me the first thing that came out of his mouth was" Mom I know your secret, You are trying to take me away from Dad" My mouth dropped and as well as the teacher. My daughter was mad at me she did not want to talk to me, she called me liar. The reason why she called me a liar is because last week was my x's week and he told me at 8:30 in the morning he drop off child support and told me he was going out town and his mom was watching the children and asked if I could help his mom out by picking them up for lunch and after school I said no problem, but I am unavailable at night this week with meetings. He phone me an hour before my meeting and told me that his mom has things to do tonight could you take the kids, I said no, I told you this morning i have meetings all week.
Anyways, Kayla says to me you lied to me when you said we could not come over because you had meeetings and you did not have meetings, I said who told you that I did not have meetings, my daughter tells me that my x's friend which is female told my dad that she saw your car home every night. I could not believe what she told, I told her I did have meetings and they went past your bedtime so it was to late for you to come over to my house on a school night. I was ready to explode. My children do not need to be in the middle, he is hurting them by telling them this stuff. I went to today and asked about mediation and she offered it to me and asked if my x would join and all I could say is you can call and ask him. I believe mediation is what I need, so that I can ask him what he is doing to our children
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