LF32 and Trinton - I do not believe that Ange's situation is anywhere remotely similar to the nightmares the the two of you have respectively endured in the past.
1. The "binders" she refers to, I believe, are merely the collection of homework books are they not? Parents sign these things acknowledging work assigned etc. If I am incorrect please do enlighten me. I interpreted her reference to these as a way of emphasis on father not having any involvement in child's academics.
2. S h e and the F a t h e r are only at the stage where one lawyer has sent the other a letter. Nobody is going to court yet. The two have plenty of time to work out their issues before that happens. Both of you know that at the early stages of case conferences these things are usually dealt with and out-of-court agreements made. If the poster refers to "court" and "judge" in her posts, she is merely looking ahead at "what could have" scenerios.
3. Sad and Tired's situation was entirely different from your situations (as she has pointed out).
I maintain that not everyone wants or seeks a 50/50 custody arrangement.
I think it is often easy to get access/parenting time mixed up with custody. Perhaps that is where this conversation has gone sideways?
1. The "binders" she refers to, I believe, are merely the collection of homework books are they not? Parents sign these things acknowledging work assigned etc. If I am incorrect please do enlighten me. I interpreted her reference to these as a way of emphasis on father not having any involvement in child's academics.
2. S h e and the F a t h e r are only at the stage where one lawyer has sent the other a letter. Nobody is going to court yet. The two have plenty of time to work out their issues before that happens. Both of you know that at the early stages of case conferences these things are usually dealt with and out-of-court agreements made. If the poster refers to "court" and "judge" in her posts, she is merely looking ahead at "what could have" scenerios.
3. Sad and Tired's situation was entirely different from your situations (as she has pointed out).
I maintain that not everyone wants or seeks a 50/50 custody arrangement.
I think it is often easy to get access/parenting time mixed up with custody. Perhaps that is where this conversation has gone sideways?
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