Hi, new user here. Happy to have found such a helpful forum.
I'll cut right to some questions I have, but first some background.
Married for just over two years
Separated for just about one year (ready to start the ball rolling)
My spouse was extremely unfaithful, and moved out.
No children.
No house.
I've held down employment steadily, spouse hasn't held a job longer than 6 months.
I own a truck (post separation) that is used for work and camping, and I bought (began financing) a car while we were married, and recently traded it in on a used car (still financing). Vehicles have always been in my name and credit.
After separation we agreed that when the time came to divorce, we would do it easily, no courts, just sign the papers, pay the fees, etc. Now I'm worried my spouse would try and come after me for no good reason - I'm certain some awful friends/family are pressuring them into trying to screw me over one final time.
I am fully prepared to split and handle all of the vehicle debts + my remaining student loan. I am used to paying all the bills as my spouse contributed next to nothing during marriage. I've found work after being laid off early last year, and I am going about my own life, and moving on - I'm young, the world is my oyster, etc.
How likely is it that my spouse could start a battle over spousal support, or something like a vehicle, especially one that the bank owns (financed); and get anywhere?
I'm just looking to split, take on all of the debt, and move on our separate ways.
Thanks for reading
I'll cut right to some questions I have, but first some background.
Married for just over two years
Separated for just about one year (ready to start the ball rolling)
My spouse was extremely unfaithful, and moved out.
No children.
No house.
I've held down employment steadily, spouse hasn't held a job longer than 6 months.
I own a truck (post separation) that is used for work and camping, and I bought (began financing) a car while we were married, and recently traded it in on a used car (still financing). Vehicles have always been in my name and credit.
After separation we agreed that when the time came to divorce, we would do it easily, no courts, just sign the papers, pay the fees, etc. Now I'm worried my spouse would try and come after me for no good reason - I'm certain some awful friends/family are pressuring them into trying to screw me over one final time.
I am fully prepared to split and handle all of the vehicle debts + my remaining student loan. I am used to paying all the bills as my spouse contributed next to nothing during marriage. I've found work after being laid off early last year, and I am going about my own life, and moving on - I'm young, the world is my oyster, etc.
How likely is it that my spouse could start a battle over spousal support, or something like a vehicle, especially one that the bank owns (financed); and get anywhere?
I'm just looking to split, take on all of the debt, and move on our separate ways.
Thanks for reading
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