My ex husband is living pt with his (now back together again) gf whom has a 13 year old daughter. My daughter is 12. The girls are very close, like sisters. My older son and my ex stay at his apartment and the girls sometimes with the gf, on his weekends. I am now aware that the girls are playing truth or dare games with neighborhood kids, including boys, whom they have kissed. Here we go...
AND then I find out that the girls are inside and outside of the adjoining neighbors home until 3am, with the neighbors outside but gf has gone to bed.
My message to my ex was a respectable, concerned one asking him to speak with his gf to find out what was going on and if "she" was aware, as she was the one responsible for both of them,as my ex was not there. I spoke with my daughter about all the reasons why I did not agree with the situation and that I shared with her Dad. She was upset with me for making a big deal about it. My ex replied to me and said his impression from this situation is perhaps this is an issue of trust and that she feels i do not trust our daughter enough to make the right decisions for herself, whether it's 3AM or 3PM may not be relevant! OMG ! Here is where I am freaking out!! I have stated to him that all I want to know is that she is safe and that there are realistic rules in place to protect her. any suggestions on how to proceed to protect my daughter when she is not with me? So our conversation between my ex and I are thru email.
AND then I find out that the girls are inside and outside of the adjoining neighbors home until 3am, with the neighbors outside but gf has gone to bed.
My message to my ex was a respectable, concerned one asking him to speak with his gf to find out what was going on and if "she" was aware, as she was the one responsible for both of them,as my ex was not there. I spoke with my daughter about all the reasons why I did not agree with the situation and that I shared with her Dad. She was upset with me for making a big deal about it. My ex replied to me and said his impression from this situation is perhaps this is an issue of trust and that she feels i do not trust our daughter enough to make the right decisions for herself, whether it's 3AM or 3PM may not be relevant! OMG ! Here is where I am freaking out!! I have stated to him that all I want to know is that she is safe and that there are realistic rules in place to protect her. any suggestions on how to proceed to protect my daughter when she is not with me? So our conversation between my ex and I are thru email.
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