To the OP;
I do understand the frustration in dealing with the girlfriend of your child's father.
In order to move forward you do need to separate your emotions from the past out of matters. It really doesn't matter that she as the one who had the emotional affair with him countless times. He was apt to end up with someone. Be thankful instead that you are not in that situation any longer, wondering if your spouse is being faithful. She is now in that spot and is probably insecure. She is a part of your daughters life, like it or not, regardless of how you feel.
Rise above it, let it go and be a positive role model for your child. Yes, it hurts at times. Remember though, children are able to love many people at once, it doesn't diminish the love your child has for you or take the fact that you are her mother away in any sense. Our children sense our feelings whether we say them or not.
Your child is more important then holding onto the past. It's also less stressful. Good luck.
I do understand the frustration in dealing with the girlfriend of your child's father.
In order to move forward you do need to separate your emotions from the past out of matters. It really doesn't matter that she as the one who had the emotional affair with him countless times. He was apt to end up with someone. Be thankful instead that you are not in that situation any longer, wondering if your spouse is being faithful. She is now in that spot and is probably insecure. She is a part of your daughters life, like it or not, regardless of how you feel.
Rise above it, let it go and be a positive role model for your child. Yes, it hurts at times. Remember though, children are able to love many people at once, it doesn't diminish the love your child has for you or take the fact that you are her mother away in any sense. Our children sense our feelings whether we say them or not.
Your child is more important then holding onto the past. It's also less stressful. Good luck.
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