Just wondering if anyone knows what is the usual rulings in regards to my situation.
I have a 18 month old son with my current husband. We have been seperated for a year and during this time he has been awarded visitation of 6 hours in week one and an overnight visit for week 2. My husband has stated that he wants to have our son half time although he has indicated that he does not wan thim when he needs to work. He is farmer so he has two main periods of time when he would not be available for our son.
I feel that half time is not fair to our son since he has been with me since birth and my other child. I dont feel that it is right to see his father for periods of time and then when the season changes not see him for weeks on end. I dont feel that my husband should be able to choose when he wants our son and when he does not. He has already told me to find childcare for 2 days while he was not available and then called that morning to say things had changed. Needless to say I did not jump at his change in plans and he did not cancel the babysitter thus did not exercise his visitation. He has already stated previously in court that he does not want our son on the weekends so that he can focus on his relationship with his other son.
I really dont want to go to court and spend thousands of dollars to fight this if it is a losing battle. I am willing to give him more time but not half time and not when it only suits him. We currently live in the same town but I am thinking of moving, therefore this will cause more kinks in the plan.
Any suggestions or experiences with this??
I have a 18 month old son with my current husband. We have been seperated for a year and during this time he has been awarded visitation of 6 hours in week one and an overnight visit for week 2. My husband has stated that he wants to have our son half time although he has indicated that he does not wan thim when he needs to work. He is farmer so he has two main periods of time when he would not be available for our son.
I feel that half time is not fair to our son since he has been with me since birth and my other child. I dont feel that it is right to see his father for periods of time and then when the season changes not see him for weeks on end. I dont feel that my husband should be able to choose when he wants our son and when he does not. He has already told me to find childcare for 2 days while he was not available and then called that morning to say things had changed. Needless to say I did not jump at his change in plans and he did not cancel the babysitter thus did not exercise his visitation. He has already stated previously in court that he does not want our son on the weekends so that he can focus on his relationship with his other son.
I really dont want to go to court and spend thousands of dollars to fight this if it is a losing battle. I am willing to give him more time but not half time and not when it only suits him. We currently live in the same town but I am thinking of moving, therefore this will cause more kinks in the plan.
Any suggestions or experiences with this??
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