We have 2 kids with 50/50 joint access/custody.
When we separated a year ago, we said that we would continue to keep the kids in activities/clubs which we did. They usually do 2 activities at a time, like swimming and art or dance. We don't have anything written in an agreement about this though.
We discussed again what to do for this winter season and agreed on a program. I enrolled them, paid for it, and now the night before it starts, my ex says that her schedule no longer allows her to take the kids to any activities.
I offered to pick the kids up, take them to the activity, and drop them back off with her, but she says no. She told me to enroll the kids and take them to any program I want during my week, but don't expect her to do anything during her week.
While the kids could still have fun in the program during my weeks, obviously if they are only attending half the classes, they won't pass their swimming/dancing/gymnastics/whatever it is...
The kids have always been in activities, and I've always paid 100% of the kids' expenses, so it's not a money issue.
With my ex no longer willing to let the kids go to activities during her weeks, this will prevent them from joining teams or passing and moving forward with swimming/dancing/etc...
What are my options here?
Is there any laws that say we have to maintain the kids' extracurricular activities?
If she is not available, I offered to pickup/dropoff them myself, but she says no.
When we separated a year ago, we said that we would continue to keep the kids in activities/clubs which we did. They usually do 2 activities at a time, like swimming and art or dance. We don't have anything written in an agreement about this though.
We discussed again what to do for this winter season and agreed on a program. I enrolled them, paid for it, and now the night before it starts, my ex says that her schedule no longer allows her to take the kids to any activities.
I offered to pick the kids up, take them to the activity, and drop them back off with her, but she says no. She told me to enroll the kids and take them to any program I want during my week, but don't expect her to do anything during her week.
While the kids could still have fun in the program during my weeks, obviously if they are only attending half the classes, they won't pass their swimming/dancing/gymnastics/whatever it is...
The kids have always been in activities, and I've always paid 100% of the kids' expenses, so it's not a money issue.
With my ex no longer willing to let the kids go to activities during her weeks, this will prevent them from joining teams or passing and moving forward with swimming/dancing/etc...
What are my options here?
Is there any laws that say we have to maintain the kids' extracurricular activities?
If she is not available, I offered to pickup/dropoff them myself, but she says no.
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