hi folks. i have been reading this forum for quite some time and thought i would introduce myself. i am married to my husband of 4.5 years and husband has had sole interim custody of the children from his previous marriage for past 6 years. his ex continues to draw things out in court and no finalization of custody. the children see their mother every other weekend, and only recently have the ex been allowed to see them all three together. children's lawyer's office has been involved in past and recommended sole custody to father (and split access) kids are happy and well adjusted, but of course would like more time with mother. there has been significant mental health issues in past related to ex, and although she is more stable now, there remains considerable emotional manipulation, etc. i guess my biggest fear is our lives lives will be turned upside down after all these years. what would be the chances. the two older kids have said they do not want to live with mom, but one says he cannot tell his mother this d/t fear of how she will react. we just try to make life seem normal, knowing there is nothing normal about it.
thanks for listening,
very tired
thanks for listening,
very tired
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