Still nothing to be gained by telling the kids her every sin. It doesn't help the kids in any way, and it really doesn't help you either. If you honestly believe you are completely blameless then you don't need anyone else's validation.
Show your kids you are a good person by your actions, which include not trashing other people, especially their mom.
If there are direct, unprompted questions when they are mature adults, you can give a brief statement like she made some poor decisions which were not acceptable to my standards and so we split. You do not have to go into the gory details.
Show your kids you are a good person by your actions, which include not trashing other people, especially their mom.
If there are direct, unprompted questions when they are mature adults, you can give a brief statement like she made some poor decisions which were not acceptable to my standards and so we split. You do not have to go into the gory details.
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