Not sure if this is the right area.
My Former Spouse is a graduate of the Abused Womens Advocacy program at George Brown College. She worked at Several Womens Shelters in the years before we met.
When we seperated in 2008, she made allegations of abuse. The police investigated and found them to be baseless. On the advice of my lawyer, I stopped verbally communicating with her in 2008 and we "talk" only with txts and the comm journal so there is always a written record.
In the four years since, she has on several occassions called the police and made allegations that I am stalking her or that she is "in fear" for her safety. The thing is, I never actually see her except at the exchange of the children, or once in a while in school and we never talk directly.
Last september she made a false and malicious report to child and family services of child sexual abuse. The Police and CFS determined that the complaints were baseless. Both organizations acknowledged that she had lied, and that there was proof, but they would not prosecute because (in there words) "There was a low chance of conviction because she is a first time offender"...WTF?
Both Organizations informed me that her actions would however be taken into account on any future complaints. The RCMP Constable went as far as saying she is now on the "loonie" list. He said that my area has many women and some men who make great sport out of regularly filing false reports with no consequences.
Just when I thought I was over the events of last september, she is now telling staff at the school where our three kids go, that I am a threat to her and she is afraid for her life. Most of them laugh about it when they tell me what she has said, but it really bothers me that she can walk around saying things that imply I am some sort of monster without the burden of proof.
The Police have told me they have no concerns, and that this is just a continuation of her previous behaviour.
Is their anything I can do? Has anyone dealt with this situation before?
My Former Spouse is a graduate of the Abused Womens Advocacy program at George Brown College. She worked at Several Womens Shelters in the years before we met.
When we seperated in 2008, she made allegations of abuse. The police investigated and found them to be baseless. On the advice of my lawyer, I stopped verbally communicating with her in 2008 and we "talk" only with txts and the comm journal so there is always a written record.
In the four years since, she has on several occassions called the police and made allegations that I am stalking her or that she is "in fear" for her safety. The thing is, I never actually see her except at the exchange of the children, or once in a while in school and we never talk directly.
Last september she made a false and malicious report to child and family services of child sexual abuse. The Police and CFS determined that the complaints were baseless. Both organizations acknowledged that she had lied, and that there was proof, but they would not prosecute because (in there words) "There was a low chance of conviction because she is a first time offender"...WTF?
Both Organizations informed me that her actions would however be taken into account on any future complaints. The RCMP Constable went as far as saying she is now on the "loonie" list. He said that my area has many women and some men who make great sport out of regularly filing false reports with no consequences.
Just when I thought I was over the events of last september, she is now telling staff at the school where our three kids go, that I am a threat to her and she is afraid for her life. Most of them laugh about it when they tell me what she has said, but it really bothers me that she can walk around saying things that imply I am some sort of monster without the burden of proof.
The Police have told me they have no concerns, and that this is just a continuation of her previous behaviour.
Is their anything I can do? Has anyone dealt with this situation before?
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