Hello
My ex and I are less than a month away from our year of separation.
She is doing it all on line, we will not use separate lawyers. We are very friendly and always will be.
We both want it done ASAP so I suggested just sending in the divorce info without the separation agreement so there are no snags.
She is doing all the paper work and wants to send the agreement in with the divorce papers, says it's better that way to get it all done.
I wanted to keep the agreement as a separate document in case they want all kinds of documentation regarding finances and that would slow things down. Our agreement is from on line and we did sign it and have it witnessed almost a year ago. It is a bit strange in that she let me keep most things but I owe her a sum of money that she stipulated in the agreement I could pay back as I am able.
She tells me a judge will not concern him or herself with this and not try to change anything or ask for more detail since we are both in full agreement and no one was under duress and we understood what we were doing.
My question is, is there a chance of slowdown due to the agreement going in with the divorce documents or is this the best way to go about it.
What way is better to keep then separate or put divorce and separation agreement in at same time. I just don't want to end up having to supply all kinds of info regrading the agreement so thought it's best to just get the divorce and let the agreement sit on it's own.
Thank you for any advise
My ex and I are less than a month away from our year of separation.
She is doing it all on line, we will not use separate lawyers. We are very friendly and always will be.
We both want it done ASAP so I suggested just sending in the divorce info without the separation agreement so there are no snags.
She is doing all the paper work and wants to send the agreement in with the divorce papers, says it's better that way to get it all done.
I wanted to keep the agreement as a separate document in case they want all kinds of documentation regarding finances and that would slow things down. Our agreement is from on line and we did sign it and have it witnessed almost a year ago. It is a bit strange in that she let me keep most things but I owe her a sum of money that she stipulated in the agreement I could pay back as I am able.
She tells me a judge will not concern him or herself with this and not try to change anything or ask for more detail since we are both in full agreement and no one was under duress and we understood what we were doing.
My question is, is there a chance of slowdown due to the agreement going in with the divorce documents or is this the best way to go about it.
What way is better to keep then separate or put divorce and separation agreement in at same time. I just don't want to end up having to supply all kinds of info regrading the agreement so thought it's best to just get the divorce and let the agreement sit on it's own.
Thank you for any advise
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