I need a solution to this topic for an upcoming arbitration: Structuring a schedule and process for determining the Children's extracurricular activities.
High conflict parents. No contact order, so no communication, except through lawyers. 3 young boys.
We have an arbitration coming in September and I've come up with a plan for all of the other issues, but I am stuck on this extracurricular activities.
How do high conflict people word a clause for extracurricular activities? He would have them in every sport possible (except the ones I might like the boys to try). They are young, I would like them to try a few different sports or activities, the ex is only caring about skiing (and all the dryland and gymnastics that go with it, at this point, the kids don't like this high commitment sport) and lacrosse (boys like lacrosse, so I'm ok with this).
Do people negotiate: the ex signs them up for two sports and so do I? how do we organize transportation for 3 kids when we can't even communicate - they do not play on the same teams since there is age gaps. This means different times and venues.
Is there a price cap on sports? ugh. I can see this topic being an issue for years to come.
High conflict parents. No contact order, so no communication, except through lawyers. 3 young boys.
We have an arbitration coming in September and I've come up with a plan for all of the other issues, but I am stuck on this extracurricular activities.
How do high conflict people word a clause for extracurricular activities? He would have them in every sport possible (except the ones I might like the boys to try). They are young, I would like them to try a few different sports or activities, the ex is only caring about skiing (and all the dryland and gymnastics that go with it, at this point, the kids don't like this high commitment sport) and lacrosse (boys like lacrosse, so I'm ok with this).
Do people negotiate: the ex signs them up for two sports and so do I? how do we organize transportation for 3 kids when we can't even communicate - they do not play on the same teams since there is age gaps. This means different times and venues.
Is there a price cap on sports? ugh. I can see this topic being an issue for years to come.
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