Considering the wording in your agreement, this is what I would do:
Stop paying the lawyer and deal with it directly
Send an email to your ex stating that there are TWO issues you both need to resolve. First one is child support. Second is whether there is a material change when child support stops warranting increase in spousal.
Explain the legal definition of child of the marriage and how your children no longer qualify. Ask her to therefore agree that child support ends for them.
State if she does not agree that child support stops, you will be asking for the full costs of all the resolution steps for that specific issue
Stop paying the lawyer and deal with it directly
Send an email to your ex stating that there are TWO issues you both need to resolve. First one is child support. Second is whether there is a material change when child support stops warranting increase in spousal.
Explain the legal definition of child of the marriage and how your children no longer qualify. Ask her to therefore agree that child support ends for them.
State if she does not agree that child support stops, you will be asking for the full costs of all the resolution steps for that specific issue
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