Your long battle is over. Sure you will have some minor skirmishes over the next few years. But you have 50/50 and school and mobility restrictions. I would think your ex will get tired of taking her to any sort of therapy as its not going to change your joint shared custody now.
As for the long weekends. I would stick to the agreement regardless of holidays, long weekends or any other event. Your days are yours and hers are hers. Eventually the days will change and you will get Christmas Day as it will be on your day.
They are just like any other day if you think about it. I have recently had Christmas on Dec 15, Dec 22 and Dec 29. Still had a tree, presents, stockings and all the trimmings. It was great.
I think your ex is opening herself up to a lot of regrets in the future. Kids are not stupid. They are loyal and have the memories of elephants. They figure things out quite quickly.
My Mom turns 90 in a couple of weeks and she is going to have a birthday party now and then in the summer my family from UK are arriving and we will have another celebration. Just like the queen. The little cousins arriving will think it's her real birthday and who will try to explain the legalities of it all.
Enjoy, relax, sleep well.
As for the long weekends. I would stick to the agreement regardless of holidays, long weekends or any other event. Your days are yours and hers are hers. Eventually the days will change and you will get Christmas Day as it will be on your day.
They are just like any other day if you think about it. I have recently had Christmas on Dec 15, Dec 22 and Dec 29. Still had a tree, presents, stockings and all the trimmings. It was great.
I think your ex is opening herself up to a lot of regrets in the future. Kids are not stupid. They are loyal and have the memories of elephants. They figure things out quite quickly.
My Mom turns 90 in a couple of weeks and she is going to have a birthday party now and then in the summer my family from UK are arriving and we will have another celebration. Just like the queen. The little cousins arriving will think it's her real birthday and who will try to explain the legalities of it all.
Enjoy, relax, sleep well.
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