I am in the end stages of an ocl report 5 years after a final court order, done on consent, after a change of notice that i initiated for change of support.
After a major change in employment and income i served a notice of change on my ex. Our final order gave us joint/shared custody with 60/40 access. All was good as it could be.
i asked for offset in support as her income has increased, which i presumed is a very normal motion.
wow was i wrong!! It was like pulling a bandaid off of a unhealed wound. She replied asking for full custody and more money and then the battle was on again.
She immediately stopped all access and so i served a motion to have the final court order enforced. After waiting 30 days for the judge to make a decision, i was shocked to read i had lost almost all access and the ocl was being involved.
After being very distraught with judge decisions early in my divorce, feeling like i had to prove all over again i was a worthy parent for my son is hard to take.
So question is, 1) any information/advice on how drastically the ocl can affect custody after so many years of having a final court order.
2) after a change in income is it common for the whole litigation process to reset?
Thanks
After a major change in employment and income i served a notice of change on my ex. Our final order gave us joint/shared custody with 60/40 access. All was good as it could be.
i asked for offset in support as her income has increased, which i presumed is a very normal motion.
wow was i wrong!! It was like pulling a bandaid off of a unhealed wound. She replied asking for full custody and more money and then the battle was on again.
She immediately stopped all access and so i served a motion to have the final court order enforced. After waiting 30 days for the judge to make a decision, i was shocked to read i had lost almost all access and the ocl was being involved.
After being very distraught with judge decisions early in my divorce, feeling like i had to prove all over again i was a worthy parent for my son is hard to take.
So question is, 1) any information/advice on how drastically the ocl can affect custody after so many years of having a final court order.
2) after a change in income is it common for the whole litigation process to reset?
Thanks
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